Friday, September 9, 2011

Bucket List Additions

I started the application process for a passport today!  I am going to get them for my boys too.

The Grand Canyon - run, hike, camp, float, you name it

Bungee jump

Surf

Learn French, maybe Swahili too

Dive Belize

See the Amazon River

Take a sailing trip - on a big sailing ship

Minimize my stuff, maximize my memories

Friday, July 29, 2011

Things I know

Love is a fabulous emotion, perfectly wonderful.

It is just a feeling, if there is no commitment.

Commitment is how you fulfill a relationship, not love. A parent who loves but neglects a child gets - deserves - no slack. A person who loves another but cannot commit - well, that person cannot expect that "relationship" to last, whether that is a marriage or a friendship or something in between. I mean effort, paying attention, listening and hearing, asking, working, trying, trusting, being worthy of trust.

On the distinction between "a marriage or a friendship," the two relationships are not mutually exclusive.  The best marriage (or romantic relationship) is one in which love, lust, friendship, trust, and the practical aspects are all present.  A married couple who are not friends, best friends, merely have a business arrangement.  

Thursday, July 14, 2011

Great Ideas

http://www.fastcodesign.com/1664481/nendos-crushingly-cute-mouse-has-detachable-usb-tail?partner=co_newsletter



Clever!  The tail of the mouse (or whale) is the USB piece which connects the mouse, wirelessly, to your computer.  That may go on my Christmas list.

Great Ideas

http://www.fastcodesign.com/1664486/jawbone-announces-up-a-wristband-to-track-health-fight-obesity?partner=co_newsletter

Fast Company reports that today, "Jawbone announced the grand project they've been quietly working on for years: A wearable band called Up, which is infused with sensors and smartphone connected, allowing you to track your eating, sleeping, and activity patterns."

What a good idea!  I love to see smartphones put to a purpose other than gaming.  Jawbone's idea will give us our personal HAL/trainer to keep us motivated.  "I'm sorry, Jennifer, I can't let you eat that."  Perfect!

Things I know

"Maybe I didn’t love you quite as often as I could have. And maybe I didn’t treat you as good as I could have. If I made you feel second best, girl, I’m sorry I was blind. You were always on my mind. You were always on my mind."

Fuck you, Willie.  That's not good enough.

Thursday, July 7, 2011

Things I Know

If you think of something nice to say, say it. Tell people you value them.  Now.

Commitments

I am going to do the GoRuck in Wilmington, the Wild Hare 50m in Warda, and the GoRuck in Memphis.

Damn it.